油腻

Greasy Middle-Aged Man
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What Does It Mean?

Picture a middle-aged Chinese man with an unwashed ponytail, a Buddha-belly peeking out under a linen shirt, spouting unsolicited life wisdom while vaping on a hiking trail. That's 'greasy.' Coined after writer Feng Tang's viral essay on how men age badly, the term skewered a certain self-satisfied, unkempt, pseudo-philosophical type. It quickly evolved into a broader insult for anyone — regardless of age or gender — who oozes smug, slimy, try-hard energy.

Cultural Context

China's rapid economic rise created a generation of self-made middle-aged men who confused success with wisdom. Feng Tang's 2017 essay 'How to Avoid Becoming a Greasy Middle-Aged Man' went viral, striking a nerve in a society grappling with aging masculinity, wellness fads, and the gap between how older men see themselves and how younger generations see them. The meme gave millennials a sharp, funny label for a recognizable social type.

中文解释

指中年男性不修边幅、自以为是、油滑世故的形象,后泛指令人反感的油腻气质。

How It's Used
他留着油腻的发型,还总爱给年轻同事讲大道理。
He rocks that greasy ponytail and can't stop dispensing unsolicited life lessons to younger colleagues.
别这么油腻好吗,发这种朋友圈真的很尴尬。
Can you not be so greasy? Posting stuff like that on WeChat Moments is genuinely cringe.
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